Unbelievable..........

I am trying not to be frustrated, upset and angry!! My sister in law did not bother to call me today instead called my brother Brian's wife knowing we work and were already busy. To let her know that with in the hour they were spreading my brother Cris's ashes. It really saddens me that she had the nerve to not even ask us to come or give us a chance to be a part of that. I guess it really doesn't matter but if I would have known I would have been there to pay my respects, say good bye and to support my nieces. I am trying not to give her the satisfaction of hurting me but how can it not. I wasn't even called or told. I guess in the end it just made the day that much harder.